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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
Hi JD, welcome to the forum and thanks for posting.
You don't tell us how long you guys were together or how long ago you split but it sounds as if you're still hurting over this guy. It is possible that you will only be able to process your feelings of loss when you finally accept that it is over - that he really doesn't want you. He's sending out very clear signals which you're not seeing, and you're totally invisible to him. Accept that this is over, mourn it and then move on.
Christmas can also be a very lonely time for many people and it can be tough if you're hurting. I hope you'll be with family or friends?
I hope you'll post again.
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