Our expert says:
Dissociating or going into a trance at the approach of a bad man is of course a highly inconvenient and actually dangerous habit.
Its no use telling him he can't push you around, and then letting him do so. Its no use telling him he can't visit or sleep over and then opening the door to him.
No, it's not : don't touch me without my consent - it's Dont Touch Me. You know you consent unwisely and when you know you shouldn't
Don't accept any of his guff about why he does this because he loves you - what he is doing is NOT love.
I'm sure you understand that we're not all exactly fed up with you, but you're like someone whom repeatedly INSISTS on playing with Rottweilers, and then complains when they bite you. Just stay away from the dog - it's really not that hard. You seem to place too many conditions and qualifications, so you end up making too many bad decisions, instead of one good one. You're like an alcoholic who keeps buying another bottle. Leave him at the bottle store, don't iopen your door to him, and if he tries to get in, call the police and charge him with breaking and entering or whatever
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