Our expert says:
Whooosh, what a long one ! Surely you need much more complex an individual advice than I can offer here - wasn't there a psychologist involved earlier, who knows ne and can advise in detail on how to manage this sort of problem ? IF not, there needs to be.
Of course, people with CP may be physically handicapped, but without any mntal retardation, you know
Some excellent comments from readers about the value of thinking about WHY she prefers to be out there with the maid. Don't take it personally, though I know that's easy to say and hard to do. Remember in the past there have been many episodes when you felt about to be overwhelmed by it all, and then came right and coped splendidly.
And how is your own health these days, and is it possibly a factor in making this hard to handle ?
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