Our expert says:
Why have you so carefully avoided going to court ? I doubt that any sensible court would give such a lousy father a 50 % right such as you have given him. And they could provide a restraining order, and if he ignores that he goes to jail. And the court can order him to pay maintenance for the child, whether or not he has access, and can require him to pay it.
The law is NOT 50/50, and if the father is telling you that, he is ognorant or lying. Get proper legal advice, maybe from the maintenance court and family advocate.
The court is supposed to decide such matters according to whatever will be best for the child, NOT according to whatever the father wants.
It is not favourable for a child to have all this confusion and uncertainty in his life, not yo spend time with a careless father
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