Our expert says:
Why would you want to marry an alcoholic who habitually gets drunk in public ? And by assisting her financially, you are paying for her alcoholism and supporting and encouraging it. being bored is no excuse whatsoever, and if she can't find anything more useful to do with herself during the day, she'd make a very poor sort of wife.
If you marry her foolishly expecting her to :"change some day" one can almost guarantee that you will be bitterly disappointed - alcoholics rarely change, and NEVER change when there is no compelling reason to do so. And she's not appreciative ?
"Loving" someone in this way is bad for them as well as for you. If she is not very seriously and sincertely prepared to work with a shrink and an ongoing rehab program to stop drinking altogether and find a more wholesome way to spend her days, you could both be nheaded for chronic misery
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