Our expert says:
Where did you get this silly idea ? If she cheated on you before the marriage - have you only discovered this now ? Was it at a time when you were fully committed to each other and a coming marriage, or longer ago than that ?
You know perfectly well that going out and cheating on her now is a lousy idea - it won't help anything at all, and is likely to destroy this marriage. And if you want to end the marriage, there are easier and less risky ways to do that simply.
If there was cheating, and what sounds like ridiculous jealousy and insecurity on her side - why on earth did you two go ahead and get married ? From the sound of it, she really needed personal counselling back then, and maybe some couples counselling sessions before deciding on marriage. And yet you speak of being hapilly married ?
Not having faith in her isn't a good reason for NOT going for counselling together - it sounds like a good reason for mariage counselling, and fairly urgently.
She was scared you were cheating on her, when you weren't, and now you are scared she's cheating on you, though there's no good reason to believe this is so at the moment.
Marriage counselling !
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