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Posted by: crazy | 2010/02/23

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is it normal for couples to engage in three somes &  swinging? i wanted to prove a point to my wife she wants other men and suggested a three some . she fell hook line &  sinker. she enjoys it. not shy when we have another guy do her, but makes it seem that she is doing it for me.

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Swinging and three-somes has the potential to cause serious relationship concerns if the couple is not both in favour of it and have very clear defined boundaries and rules. If one of the partners is not comfortable with it – even if they were initially, the agreement should be reconsidered and a couple decision should be made. It might be worth it for you to consider seeking professional assistance from a qualified psychologist specializing in sexual concerns.
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Posted by: sexologist | 2010/02/26

Swinging and three-somes has the potential to cause serious relationship concerns if the couple is not both in favour of it and have very clear defined boundaries and rules. If one of the partners is not comfortable with it – even if they were initially, the agreement should be reconsidered and a couple decision should be made. It might be worth it for you to consider seeking professional assistance from a qualified psychologist specializing in sexual concerns.
You are also welcome to contact our helpline – 0860100262 where you could be assisted to get in touch with a therapist as close a possible to you.
Furthermore you are welcome to visit the following website for any more sexual health information and assignments that could be helpful: www.sexualhealth.co.za

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Posted by: No No | 2010/02/24

Your missus is crazy man. You watching as she gets whacked by another guy ,whimpering and panting urging him on? How does that make you feel as a man ? She has emasculated you. I shudder at the image. Ugh !!

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Posted by: Big Boy | 2010/02/24

You Fool.Do you enjoy watching your wife get pumped by another guy.How can you enjoy this?

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Posted by: man | 2010/02/23

good bye marriage goodbye,

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Posted by: Anon | 2010/02/23

Enjoy it!! Suggest another women in bed too. If she declines, then you know you are not satisfying her. If she agrees, then you know she is very open minded and you are one lucky guy

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Posted by: Anon | 2010/02/23

She doesnt want to break your ego, you definatley not satisfying her...
She wants it from someone else and is using this as a way..

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Posted by: XXX | 2010/02/23

You are going down a very shaky path.... you have been warned

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Posted by: aaa | 2010/02/23

You have made a big mistake, whether it be in 6 months or 6 years, you will regret doing this, swingers always fall off the scene because the marriages disintegrate but at the time they still together they will tell you how great it is, it is exactly the same when it comes to threesomes, I hope for your sake you are the 1 in a thousand that may not end up that way

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Posted by: topdog | 2010/02/23

well if she is doing this for u??are u enjoying the moments.well if she enjoys this ,wats the problem.???u guys are not alone,,,,there are millions of people that are into this.

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