Our expert says:
Indeed, try the Divorce Support forum. And a legal opinion would be useful - as I understand it, if the Court ordered that he should be allowed sllepovers from the children, that should be allowed, and it would be a serious thing for the mother to ignore the court decision.
I understand the idea that the children's wishes should be considered importan, but where they can be so easily swayed by a vengeful parent, and / or misrepresnted, this shouldn't be the deciding factor.
And where a visit has ben aranged ( and apparently at signifiicant expense and effort, she should not be allowed to frivolously change those arangements at the last minute.
A court can be persuaded that she is ignoring the copurt decisions, which can even be considered contempt of court. And she doesn't have to force the kids to go with him, but to allow him aces to spend time with them and to ask them to accompany him without her being present to prod them to refuse
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