Our expert says:
YOu seem to be meeting a lower class of men, BJ. Maybe sometimes what feels like rejection is due in part to your own seisitivity and feeling an expectation of being rejected, rather than a definite response on their side. Men more often feel uneasy that they don't know what to say or how to handle such a situation.
I think you need to see a personal counsellor, preferably someone with experience in this specific area, and the Cancer Association should be able to help. They used to have an excellent reach for Recovery program, started by a friend of mine overseas, a marvellous woman who worked out how to handle her own complex reactions to breast cancer and surgery, and realized all women needed and deserved such support and help
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