Our expert says:
So, you are saying that you love and miss your abuser, and miss being abused ? Or are you in love with the man you thought and hoped he was, hoped he would be ; not the weak and abusive man he actually was ? DO, please, arrange to see a personal counsellor to work through these issues, to set yourself free psychologically from anoxious relationship you sound as though you are fortunately physically free of. Abusers don't change. Free yourself to make a happy life for yourself ; you don't need him to form any part of that good life you so much deserve. Explore, also, organizations like POWA that exist to hepp abused women to escape and break the bad habits that can be associated with abuse.
As XXX wisely points out, there are bad habits that form around even abusive relationships, habits that need to be broken and revised
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