Our expert says:
If the abusive spouse can live with themselves then they should do so alone, and their victims should be encouraged to contact a helping agency like POWA, and find out about their safest way to leave the swine behind, and to seek the protection of a court order against him or her. Also after an assault such as you describe, she could lay criminal charges against him. Abusers usualyl convince themselves that everything wrong they do is always someone else's fault, never theirs. He has to learn through what happens to him, that this behaviour is inexcusable and unacceptable, and has to stop. They continuie to do such things because they find that there are no negative consequences for them, and so long as they are allowed to get away with it, they will do it
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