Our expert says:
This is still a deep mystery. Often the woman has a really low self-esteem, and allows her abuser to convince her to blame herself. You CAN leave them, and fortunately many smart women have done so. Especially if you are independent enough not to need anything from them. Consider it a form of addiction or dependency, and seek proper CBT style treatment to break this very bad habit
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