Posted by: Davy | 2013-02-09


Hi Doc

I am a male in my 30''s and i was sexually abused by my father as a child, which has caused huge conflict in my family. To cut a long story short, i have been to Physcs, physcologists and even to Sanca. The issue is, i cannot stop self medicating, i go doctor shopping for xanax, ambien and i was heavelly addicted to tramadol which in my opinion is a very dangerous drug because of the seizures you have during withdrawals. I am now immigrating to NZ do you think by moving away will help my mental stability and stop my self disctruction? I do opologise for the broad q''s but i would just like to hear your opinion on this matter, if you can answer it with little info.


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You CAN stop, and please start by stopping telling yourself that you can't ! Its sad that you can find so many doctors prepared to prescribe drugs they know can be addictive, without being necessarily suspicious.
A geographical move doesn't usually solve problems ; it often reduces the resources available to you, and the problems are usually the first thing you unpack.
A therapist should be able to help you to come to terms with the earlier abuse, and to help you refuse to allow your father to continue abusing you ( which he is doing, remotely, so long as you allow yourself to accept the damage he inflicted. ) The standards of health care in NZ are hih, and maybe you'll find it easier to work ith their psychiatrists and psychologists, and with it being harder to find sloppy GPs to provide prescriptions, it may be easier for you to give up the meds that are not helping you at all.
And Liza is right --- seek out branches of NA

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Posted by: Liza | 2013-02-09

@Davy - Only you can stop your self-destruction. I''m a recovering addict and moving to a different province did help - since I didn''t know any dealers, I stopped using due to lack of access. Misuse of prescription medication is another matter. All you need to do is find a doctor who doesn''t know you well and you can get a prescription with the right story - no matter where you are in the world.

Find out where the nearest Narcotics Anonymous group to you is, and start going to meetings. Even if you''re still using. It gets you into the right frame of mind to stop using. I''m not saying that it''s easy, it''s just much easier when you have people who''ve been there that support you.

Good Luck

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