Our expert says:
Sounds like you have been realistic and sensible. Whether anyone cheats just once, guys who cheat repeatedly will continue to do so. Those who eventually stop are as rare as spotless leopards. Of course the health risks to you, as well as the hurt, were unacceptable.
Growing in a loving family with two consistent and loving parents is great. But this guy made that absolutely impossible. He doesn't sound like the sort of guy with whom the baby could have had a consistent or beneficial relationship. The child will have lost nothing by the moving out of someone not committed to the relationship with her mother, nor committed to consistent close loving care for his child. He has already deprived her of that, so his presence could add very little if anything.
Good fathering can be good for a kid ; bad fathering, or a guy who makes the mother miserable, is of no value whatever
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