Our expert says:
So, he was an abusive, cheating, selfish liar ? Do go to the maintenance court to ensure that he is compelled to p[ay maintenance for the child, both for the child's sake, and to remind him that selfish and irresponsible behaviour has consequences and costs.
There is no automatic benefit for a child in contact with a selfish and uninterested man who simply happens to be the biological father. And someone who only briefly appears then disappears is more likely to be disturbing than helpful for a child.
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