Posted by: wreck | 2012-11-21

about to walk out

I''ve been married for over 5 years, and i neded up being the butler / cook / garden worker / machanic / etc.
She doesnt even touch me . I''m a lving wreck. shattered. Living of sedatives. Work is bad = hell no 1. Home is worse = hell no 2. Maybe a bullet can get me in heaven . I''m crying myself to sleep in the evenings.

Just wanted to vent....

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The sedatives are probably not really helping, and are almost always the wrong approach. And bullets do NOT send one to heaven. Do see someone for proper expert help ; at least a good GP, preferably a good local psychiatrist, for a proper assessment and a discussion of treatment options. Depression may well be a significant part of the problems and should respond well to the right treatment. Maybe couples counselling could sort out the problems in your marriage - the shrink could explore thios option with you. And personal counselling for you could help sort out whats best for you at home and at work.

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Posted by: sara | 2012-11-22

so sorry and I can almost feel your sadness through my computer. i also feel like this sometimes, and it so sad because it''s as if the whole world is sad. all i can say is that anti-depressants will work, given they are prescribed by a good doc. good luck, pray if you are religious and know that the sun will shine again tomorrow...

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Posted by: Lady Luck | 2012-11-21

Hi there Wreck. I am so sorry to hear that things are not well with you.

Do you think that she still loves you, and most importantly... do you still love her?

I feel your pain and I sometimes also wonder if it is all worth it. You are definitely very depressed - on what anti-depressants are you?

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