Our expert says:
How unfortunate that you met this horrible person, whose charm, like any confidence trickster, was a tool of his selfish manipulation of others.
As you recognize now, it was amazingly foolish to stay with such a creature even once you know of his evil and cruel behaviour towards others, including you.
You seem to have really, really poor judgement of what makes a "wonderful" man. See a personal counsellor / therapist, and work through all your issues. Do not move towns in pursuit of the possibility of love, and don't form relationships with men with children until you have sorted out your complex feelings about children. YOu are already of an age where some would advise against haing children, yourself, as the risk to mother and baby rises at this stage in life. Having avoided sexual relationships for a year was a wise and at last a mature decision.
To those who have made savagely cruel comments to this woman, read and think before responding to quesions. She said she WAS using oral contraceptives. ( Though the most effective oral contraceptive is saying No. )
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