Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: Anon | 2013/10/03 What's happening? My husband is 32 years old and seems to have no interest in sex. If I'm lucky I can expect once a month or once every two months, This bothers me. I am 30 and would LOVE a healthy sex life. What can I do to get sex more frequently? Why isn't it bothering him? I'm not overweight or anything, I have a lovely figure. Isn't it supposed to get sore for men if they go without sex for too long? Should I worry that he's having an affair? Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question 5 Our users say: Posted by: Jo | 2013/10/04 He is getting sex from somebody else than you. Reply to Jo Posted by: DAN | 2013/10/03 Maybe he should go to a docter his testorone level are low then his sex drive is low 2 or is your husband fat because he might find you sexy but if he is over wight he find himself not and is afraid that you might see him that way two. Reply to DAN Posted by: laila | 2013/10/03 has it only recently been this way? or is it comming on for some time now? Reply to laila Posted by: laila | 2013/10/03 you know sometimes it could be stress related aswell perhaps he has work ,family or some related problems thts his not dealing to well with..perhaps you should speak to him about it and find out if something is worrying him cause i know generally i dont think one could think properly when you stressing or even think of sex etc Reply to laila Posted by: Ben | 2013/10/03 It is sore when a man goes a long time without sex. Is either your man's libido is very low or your man has an affair. Reply to Ben Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions Possible hepatitis B infection Alternative depression medication Unusual periods Fertility problems Elbow infection Blisters Alternative depression medication Severe back and neck pain Small red itchy spot on back 3year old with fever Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? My son and I If a girl swallows sperm, can she get pregnant? He called me filth Spiked drink advertisement From our sponsors Discover treatments that can help reduce acne What can I do to reduce or remove acne marks? Dementia and Incontinence: what you need to know WIN a R2000 Skin Renewal online store voucher!