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Posted by: | 2017/10/23

Possible erectile dysfunction or just mental problem?

I am a 24 yr old male. I barely started having sex about a month ago and i have a hard time getting and keeping my erection. I use to watch porn and masturbate 2-3times a week before and i had no problem getting erection. I really like this girl but afraid she might leave me as she told me that she gets turned off most of the times because i can't stay turned on and shes not interested in sex anymore. She told me that she loved sex with her ex. I talked about this with her and she says, " its okay i wont leave you." But i can tell that she is starting to get disappointed. I dont know if i should leave her so atleast she can have a better sex life or seek help first. I get normal erections throughout the day and night, but have a hard time when i try to have sex with her. I am not sure if I'm dealing with erectile dysfunction or just a mental problem. I do think a lot about what if she dont like it with me, am i pleasing her right, am i lasting long enough, and all sort of things. She told me how sex was with her ex and how he always made her happy. So i do think about that to if im keeping her happy. I feel very stressed thinking about it as i dont want to lose her, but i really dont know what to do at this point.

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