Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: | 2017/10/23 Possible erectile dysfunction or just mental problem? I am a 24 yr old male. I barely started having sex about a month ago and i have a hard time getting and keeping my erection. I use to watch porn and masturbate 2-3times a week before and i had no problem getting erection. I really like this girl but afraid she might leave me as she told me that she gets turned off most of the times because i can't stay turned on and shes not interested in sex anymore. She told me that she loved sex with her ex. I talked about this with her and she says, " its okay i wont leave you." But i can tell that she is starting to get disappointed. I dont know if i should leave her so atleast she can have a better sex life or seek help first. I get normal erections throughout the day and night, but have a hard time when i try to have sex with her. I am not sure if I'm dealing with erectile dysfunction or just a mental problem. I do think a lot about what if she dont like it with me, am i pleasing her right, am i lasting long enough, and all sort of things. She told me how sex was with her ex and how he always made her happy. So i do think about that to if im keeping her happy. I feel very stressed thinking about it as i dont want to lose her, but i really dont know what to do at this point. Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions I have been using norestrat injection for 2 year what are the effects of long term usage I just want to know any side effect on this product.. can a boerboel breed with a jack russell Does masturbation causes any disease or illness Is a Oraquick swab test accurate at 4 weeks? Termination and now things have changed I have a loving boyfriend, but he's too complacent for my taste. This other guy that I've been on and off with, has his life very put together and he's very close to what I look for in a partner The results of my insulin fasting test is 25.8 uU/mL. can a boerboel breed with a jack russell Please elaborate on "cluster headaches can be permanently eliminated with most patients". What needs to be done? What meds could be taken that's more effective than Migril? Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? My son and I If a girl swallows sperm, can she get pregnant? He called me filth I'm 15 and jerk off all the time. advertisement From our sponsors Discover treatments that can help reduce acne Dementia and Incontinence: what you need to know Fill in our quick and easy survey and stand a chance of winning a R2000 voucher! What can I do to reduce or remove acne marks?