Our expert says:
I am about as far from being a financial expert as possible. However, it sounds like as a start, your husband should stop his foolish habit of buying cars for others and standing surety for others : you are not millionaires who can afford to do that.
That both of his brothers have been sequestrated sounds like they're all hopeless at managing their finances.
On the other hand your ex father in law sounds as though he has far more sense and success on money matters.
It also sounds as though the problem you face are rather larger than an issue of good taste.
Wouldn't it be useful to ask to visit your ex father-in-law to ask for his advice on financial problems and on how you might better manage your financial affairs ? If he suggests helping out, make it clear that you would wish this to be in the form of loans, but take his advice on how how would want to be helpful.
Isn't it interesting how appliances seem to conspire together to create problems at the same time ?
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