Our expert says:
The saga continues. So, she doesn't like your hair, your car or your job. So what ? These are yours, not hers, which you have chosen so as to please yourself, not her. In a way, wouldn't it be more worrying if she DID like your hair ?
Why does it have to matter what she calls your husband ?
When the next-door dog barks at you, do you feel obliged to take offense ?
She has no power whatever, except for what you choose to give her. Choose to give her none.
Surely your parents don't take her ridiculous comments seriously ? Maybe they and you / your husband should take legal advice about seeking a court order forbidding her from making any for of contact with you at all, and enjoy the subsequent silence. If she breaks such a court order, she would be in contempt of court and could even go to jail, or maybe to hospital for observation and assessment.
You and your husband seem to have allowed her to be outrageously intrusive. The sit-in i the honeymoon suite is highly bizarre : why didn't someone call the police and have her arrested for trespass ? Why ever allow her to visit ? Why enable her to access your e-mails, and whatever ?
Why do you assume it matters what this idiot thinks of your chosen work, hobbies, or choices ?
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