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Posted by: sommer net ek | 2011/11/29

812 ek gee op!!!!

Jammer om jou teleur te stel. Dis nie iets wat nou skielik gebeur het nie. Dis meer as 20 jaar se probeer wat ek dit sê .
Ek is bereid om huweliksberading te kry. Hy weier want hy het " niks vir berader te sê  nie"  Hy reken hy het nie probleem nie en as ek het dan moet ek maar gaan!
Anyway baie dankie vir almal anders se positiewe bydrae. Ek waardeer dit. Ja ek sal vasbyt. Is ek reg as ek dink julle is vroue?
Hoekom dink ek so? Mans sal eerder dink die fout is by my en dat ek skielik besluit het om te kla.
Dankie

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Encourage him not to make excuses but to sincerely try the marriage counselling. Maybe he can't right now thing of anything to say to the counsellor, but before long, he will ! If you are a couple, if either of you experiences such a problem, then you both have a problem. And its best if nobody assumes the difficulties are the "fault" of either of you. It shouldn't be about blaming but solving

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Posted by: Helen | 2011/12/01

get divorced, what are you waiting for? Living on your own with no moaning guy around, doing your own thing, when and what you feel like...wonderful.

otherwise, just stop moaning.

it''s that easy

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Posted by: Romany | 2011/11/30

Die geheim is om " jou eie lewe" te bou, binne die lewe wat jy nou het.
Met alle respek gese...... vee jou g@t af aan sy gekla en kerm en maak die lewe vir jouself lekker en interessant.
Moenie jou asem en energie mors om met hom te argumenteer oor onbenullige goed nie... jy gaan in elk geval te besig wees om jouself gelukkig te maak.

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Posted by: cybershrink | 2011/11/30

Encourage him not to make excuses but to sincerely try the marriage counselling. Maybe he can't right now thing of anything to say to the counsellor, but before long, he will ! If you are a couple, if either of you experiences such a problem, then you both have a problem. And its best if nobody assumes the difficulties are the "fault" of either of you. It shouldn't be about blaming but solving

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