Our expert says:
ALWAYS, ALWAYS be cautious about dating anyone who is still mmarried, whatever they may say about how they're thinking of divorce. They are not legally , socially or emotionally free to enter into a sincere relationship, and you don't know what went on in the marriage, as you hear only his story.
And he insists on keeping his affair with you secret from his friends ? And you didn't smell a rat ? Its obvious he is lying to everyone else about you - surely he's likely to also be lying to you ?
Why on earth are you now having second thoughts about your very late but wise decision to tell him to leave ? What is there to usefully talk over ? He has clearly been using you - are you eager to be used further ?
See a counsellor, as you're repeating the same bad pattern as before, sticking to a bad choice in men, and refusing to allow yourself to move on.
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