Our expert says:
Dear Seeking Help,
Firstly for all persons choosing to engage in whatever type of sexual encounter/arrangement it is important that all parties consent of their own free will and do so because they choose to and not because the feel compelled too.
It is also important that all parties are able to participate in the negotiations and rules and agreements made for a sexual encounter/experience and that everyone feels that their needs and conditions have been acknowledged and included in the decisions.
It sounds that you would choose not to engage in a 3some at all. Rather than "play games" I would suggest you be direct and honest with your bf about what you want and don't want.
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