Our expert says:
Firstly I have to be clear that I do no know of Chao Jimengnan - many people swear by over-the-counter libido enhancers, but since they have not been scientifically scrutinised and shown to be effective, I cannot comment on them.
I can't and wouldn't suggest anything to secretly give a partner even if there were such a thing - that would be worse than what he is currently seemingly doing to you! All I can suggest is for you to exercise your right to say no. You don't have to have sex EVER if you don't want to; many women have sex when they desire it, or sometimes to meet their partner's needs...but it sounds like this is excessive and you can say 'no'. You can't stop him from taking whatever he wants to take - that's also his right, but it will leave him frustrated (a consequence of his own doing if this over-the-counter pill works) if you are not in the mood and exercising your own right not to have sex.
As for whether it is 'disgusting' that a man of his age wants to have sex all the time; I think that is a matter of perspective. It is normal that many men of age 65 still experience sexual desire (admittedly often somewhat reduced compared to younger years - but in a new relationship this can be reawakened).
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