Our expert says:
Hey, i a teenager gives no problems whatever, maybe that's a reason to worry a little ! Check the archives as I've discussed this type of problem so very often. Set basic clear house rules, applicable to all the kids, with penalties ( losing privileges she values, such as the use of a cellphone at all ) for breaking them, and rewards for keeping to them. Apply these firmly, calmly and equally to all. Disrespect to others is not acceptable. And why does she ened a cellphone at all, with a bill you pay ? Why not let her have only the phone, with NO airtime, which she must buy from pocket money she earns by being respectful to all, and by doing chores around the house ? Don't let the bill be payed, willy-nilly, bu the trust. Discuss this with the trustees.
And report the sister's phone as stolen, so it can be blocked. And if it turns out she does have it, ask the police to inform her how they would deal with such a theft. She has to recognize the likely results from
the choices she makes.
And make it clear, you do not hate her, but you hate some of the things she does, such as lying --- its the cations that are hateful, not the person.
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