Home > Experts > Question Question Posted by: Bella | 2013/01/15 10year Marriage vs new Love Out of love with his wife of 10years and they have 2 kids(girls)...in love with a coulleague and he says he has never been inlove the way he is now,Whats your take Ladies n Gents? yhoo sad Not what you were looking for? Try searching again, or ask your own question 10 Our users say: Posted by: Wife | 2013/01/16 Eish u guys, one would swear you talking about my situation hey,My hasband has been busy with his 20 for the past 7 / 8 months now and they seem to still be going strong!! we have sex in like one/twice a week, he is 90% not home etc and to make matters worse, I just fund out I am pregnant with our 4th baby!! we''ve always wantd 4 children but when we decided I stoped contraceptives this time I did not catch now that I have decided to go back on contraceptives, my doc wanted to check if I am not preg before he can put me back and whala!! I am preg!! I have not even told him yet!Istina tjh haai basishayile Reply to Wife Posted by: Bella | 2013/01/15 Eish Ntate and i wont be even suprised if the woman can be mentally disturbed Reply to Bella Posted by: Ntate | 2013/01/15 The grass is only painted green and the paint will wear off. New p***y has that effect on men, unable to tell the difference.If he failed to work on his 10yr old marriage, he will not work on his newly found love. Reply to Ntate Posted by: Zion | 2013/01/15 Eish ya marriage neh, you give it youre all and sacrifice everything and then BOOM! the other partner just dumps you like that SAD!! Reply to Zion Posted by: Bella | 2013/01/15 He will T i am telling you he will you have made scrifieses, build a life with this person, bore him children, gave up some of your dreams for him and 1 day he wakes up and tell you i dont love you anymore, yaz guys i was listening on first avenue this morning there was an anon caller about her aunt and her uncle they were also married for years and the husband was cheating and she finded out about it and guess what she became an alcoholic then she started disappearing and she was gang raped from there she became mentally ill and now she is in the mentally ill institution and the uncle does not even care and they have a 15 year old child Reply to Bella Posted by: T | 2013/01/15 Lol so it''s 80/20 not 90/10 -my bad. I also suspect he''ll be crawling back to wife no.1 in no time. Reply to T Posted by: Bella | 2013/01/15 Zee say that agin sana, i feel sorry for him and for us woman yaz...i hate this rule 80/20 Reply to Bella Posted by: Zee | 2013/01/15 the 80/20 rule! He is excited for now, but later, even the new relationship will get stale, if both parties don''t work on it. Actually, I give him less than a year and he''ll look back and miss home. NB: I don''t want to be in the wife''s shoes! Damn# Reply to Zee Posted by: Amasi | 2013/01/15 That guy missed a class in cheatology." In case you decide to cheat, dont leave your family" . Of course it is different if you cheat in order to leave your family.My crazy brain says he can negotiate possibility of polygamy. Most like the first wife will not agree but it wont hurt to try.1513nt Reply to Amasi Posted by: T | 2013/01/15 Tjo, mid-life crisis maybe? I''d say it''s a case of abandoning the 90% to go look for the missing 10% - not a wise move. Reply to T Have your say Your name (optional) Your comment Security × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Search health advice Find an answer × Thanks for commenting! Your comment will appear on the site shortly. Reply to Your name (optional) Your comment Security Close Submit comment Recently: Asked Questions Answered Questions Commented Questions My son is on 56mg concerta but only started last year LOWER BACK PAIN HUSBAND HAS SWOLLEN LYMTH NODE CLOSE TO HIS GROIN Womans chronic tension orgasm How many sleeping pills is too many? Womans chronic tension orgasm Could I be pregnant 11 weeks pregnant Cycts can ultrasound detect abortion if you are on abortion bleeding Hi im on depo for one month now and have gained 7kg despite of the fact that im using herbex slimming products.What can I di to stop the weight gain? Hormone Working for 4 years on Contract Not sure if my boyfriend is in our relationship My son is on a hunger strike because he got braces advertisement From our sponsors Managing diabetes in the workplace Back-to-school with diabetes Discover treatments that can help reduce acne What can I do to reduce or remove acne marks?