Our expert says:
Gosh what a long and complicated story ! It sounds as though he has been impulsive, making many decisions that might have seemed like a good idea at the time, but without realistically thinking through the long-term picture. Entrepreneurs SUCCESSFULLY identify business opportunities - they don't give up good jobs for unlikely possibilities.
His current employers sound flaky and unprofessional, and maybe should be discussed with the department of Labour for bad business and employee practices.
A couple with chronic financial difficulties should really not be thinking of a big white wedding - all that expenditure for one day ?
Your mom could be a bit greedy in expecting large lobola and fanct expensive weddings, for her own pleasure, even if trying to meet her wishes could cause chronic problems for the pair of you.
I don't think you should feel you have to CONVINCE her - you are a hard-working adult and free to decide on your own life and marriage.
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